1. wonderin—why said: Good luck. I hope you can hear her better soon. I’m sorry I couldn’t help.

That’s alright. There probably wasn’t much you could do, anyway… and I can hear her a bit better now ,so that’s good. Maybe by tomorrow, if I keep forcing, it’ll be back to normal. 

I don’t think so, but my host says it’s harder for her to hear and see us sometimes if she’s tired or stressed. Is that the problem?

Maybe? I don’t think so though. I’m sitting on my bed not doing anything but trying to feel her presence and talk to her.

I think I’m gonna go read horribly written fanfiction or something cause she usually will show up after a couple seconds to make fun of it… she can’t resist that… 

Did you try asking her if you can talk to her?

Yeah, tried that. 

She’s trying to communicate, I think—I can feel her make expressions and send faint emotional responses but it’s like there’s a big block. Do you think a couple days without forcing or talking can do that? It’s like I can picture her face but I can’t.

So Patricia got mad at me and I got mad at her and we haven’t talked in like three days and feel really horrible about it, and I tried to call her back today to make up but I can barely hear her and her form is all faded and it’s hard to feel her presence. Ughghghghgh. Help me. 

I tried to say I’m sorry and I sorta got “yeah yeah whatever” kinda vibe, but she’s still not completely there, and I feel horrible and I miss her and I really need to talk to her right now and… ugh. I don’t know if she’s not talking just because she’s still mad or because I’m out of practice or??? HELP?

It’s Patricia’s four month birthday today. I love you sweetie! (:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

icarus-to-the—sun:

The only thing I hate is forcing because I totally suck it. I cant keep imagining one constant thing for so long and i cant keep telling my tulpa the same things over and over again. But I like narrarating because some times when I talk about how cool itll be once he starts talking or just about cool things in general I feel this strong happiness and im not sure if its mine or his feelings. Ugh!

(cut post cause long post was long)

yeahhh I hated forcing too. It was (and still is sometimes) really hard to keep focused and stuff… so make it fun! do stuff in your mindscape, like fighting dragons or zombies or whatever. It’ll help with visualization (way more interesting than sitting there trying to visualize his face for an hour). even if he can’t move yet, drag him along, keep him in your range of sight and kill every zombie that threatens to bite him. stuff like that. talk to him while you’re doing it, explain things, ask questions.

(also PS I am making this all up as I go along so sorry if it makes no sense)

as for personality forcing, I’d just work it into narrating. say, if you wanted to force the trait “protective” and while you were at school some guy was harassing you, you’d start narrating to your tulpa all the stuff you’d want him to do because of the that trait (like beat the guy up or something, I dunno.) or something?? does that make sense?? make it fun. don’t just sit in the chair and say “you are sarcastic, stubborn, wise, affectionate…” tell him stories about all the things those traits will make him be.  

and yeah… those bursts of emotion are kinda hard to pick apart. I’d just say it was my tulpa and move on— if it keeps happening the same way, it’s probably most definitely your tulpa. just stay confident, don’t doubt him, and be positive. :D 

(I apologize in advance if that doesn’t make any sense / is bad advice)

You are seriously amazing, youre helping me out a lot! Id love for us to be friends!! And sorry i keep reposting on both of my blogs by accident xc do you happen to have a kik or something we could like instant message on? C:

Oh thank you!! I’d love that too!!

yes I do actually. the username is whattheyforgot

icarus-to-the—sun:

The only thing I hate is forcing because I totally suck it. I cant keep imagining one constant thing for so long and i cant keep telling my tulpa the same things over and over again. But I like narrarating because some times when I talk about how cool itll be once he starts talking or just about cool things in general I feel this strong happiness and im not sure if its mine or his feelings. Ugh!

(cut post cause long post was long)

yeahhh I hated forcing too. It was (and still is sometimes) really hard to keep focused and stuff… so make it fun! do stuff in your mindscape, like fighting dragons or zombies or whatever. It’ll help with visualization (way more interesting than sitting there trying to visualize his face for an hour). even if he can’t move yet, drag him along, keep him in your range of sight and kill every zombie that threatens to bite him. stuff like that. talk to him while you’re doing it, explain things, ask questions.

(also PS I am making this all up as I go along so sorry if it makes no sense)

as for personality forcing, I’d just work it into narrating. say, if you wanted to force the trait “protective” and while you were at school some guy was harassing you, you’d start narrating to your tulpa all the stuff you’d want him to do because of the that trait (like beat the guy up or something, I dunno.) or something?? does that make sense?? make it fun. don’t just sit in the chair and say “you are sarcastic, stubborn, wise, affectionate…” tell him stories about all the things those traits will make him be.  

and yeah… those bursts of emotion are kinda hard to pick apart. I’d just say it was my tulpa and move on— if it keeps happening the same way, it’s probably most definitely your tulpa. just stay confident, don’t doubt him, and be positive. :D 

(I apologize in advance if that doesn’t make any sense / is bad advice)

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

icarus-to-the—sun:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

wonderin—why:

theforgotten-ones:

wonderin—why:

theforgotten-ones:

theforgotten-ones:

I spelled Patricia’s name wrong when I signed her up for a forum

damn it

I’m sorry Patricia

you deserve a host that can spell

I’m really upset about this and she’s laughing…

Ayy! My names Patricia :D

Really?? That’s so cool! 

[Hi!! Looks like you’re new to tulpamancy? How’s everything going so far?]

I actually just started last night after days of research xD! I wanna say it went pretty well. But after about 20 minutes of visualzation my head starts hurting xc but i make my self keep going. How long have you had your tulpa o: I think her names Patricia, right xD? Haha

Since October 14 2013, so… around three months? 

That sounds like a good start. Do you have a basic idea of what you want them to be like (form, personality, gender, name, etc) or are you just going to let her decide on their own?

I have a gender and a form. Im still a bit hazy on form though. I dont want to spend a lot of time on personallity because I want him to kind of form his own. Im just hoping i do this right xD Im scared ill mess him up or something

Don’t worry, there’s not much you can mess up. The important thing in the beginning stages is spending as much time with them as you can (not so much that it interferes with your actual life— just, like, remember to narrate whenever you can and when you have some down time take fifteen or so minutes to active force. You don’t have to do it all at once.) 

You may or may not see any signs of sentience within the first few days, and if you don’t, don’t get discouraged. On the other hand, if you do, don’t chalk it off as you parroting just because it’s early. Patricia was vocal within a couple of days and she was annoyed as heck that I kept brushing it off as me. 

(sorry if this isn’t helpful— it’s my first time giving advice)

Haha i appreciate it! I was just about to try and spend time with my tulpa. I like to talk to hin as i create him. Ya know let him know wuddup xD did you name Patricia? Or did she name her self xD ive been debating on wheather i should try and figure out a name or what lol

actually, Patricia’s based off a character from a TV show, so her name was already there. (everyone says not to do this but it went fine)

about looking for a name: what I see people do a lot is, once they can “feel” their tulpa’s presence (and/or the tulpae can communicate with head pressures) they go on a baby names site and read through a bunch of names until you get to one that causes a positive response from the tulpa. That way you can choose one that feels right for both of you. 

if you do decide to pick a name yourself, your tulpa can always change it later, so I wouldn’t stress about it. I know a lot of tulpae that have changed their names at least four times before settling on one. 

Im like so scared my tulpa will never talk to me or I wont dont this whole thing correctly. I was narrating in the car because i had some free time and I feel like I got a responce from him, it was like i was talking to him and then another thought over lapped mine. Im not sure if it was him or not though xc

i was scared of that too! but don’t worry, he’ll want to talk and eventually he’ll find a way to communicate. it can be a little frustrating on both sides at first, you just have to keep at it.

there’s no such thing as “doing it wrong” (unless you a. mistreat/abuse your tulpa, or b.  don’t spend any time with him) because everyone’s experience with this is different. do what feels right.

also, have you seen this post? It has lots of tips and tricks that really help.

and like it says, if you’re not sure it’s your tulpa, best to assume it’s him. as time goes by it’ll get easier to tell who’s who. (Patricia has a British accent and mine is American, so it’s gotten really easy to tell who’s talking. I dunno if that would help you or not though)

Yeah i saw it! C: how lond did it take for Patricia to talk to you?

Almost immediately actually. She told me she’s been there for a while. Technically she was one of those “accidental tulpae” who just appear one day for no particular reason. 

It caused a lot of doubt (because who ever heard of a tulpa being vocal immediately??!) but about a month in I got over it and just accepted that that’s Patricia— stubborn, determined, and non-conforming.

Thats crazy. I wish mine could become vocal that fast xD!

I hope yours becomes vocal soon omg. Patricia really needs more tulpa-friends (if that’s alright, them being friends that is)

That would be great! Now I really want my tulpa to be vocal now xD speaking since I just started creating him yesterday Ive probably got some time to wait :c

Aw it’ll fly by. seriously though— once they’re talking, it’s the best thing ever. Patricia’s the bestest friend I could ever ask for. we argue a lot but she’s really sweet and understanding and I just love her. :D

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

icarus-to-the—sun:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

wonderin—why:

theforgotten-ones:

wonderin—why:

theforgotten-ones:

theforgotten-ones:

I spelled Patricia’s name wrong when I signed her up for a forum

damn it

I’m sorry Patricia

you deserve a host that can spell

I’m really upset about this and she’s laughing…

Ayy! My names Patricia :D

Really?? That’s so cool! 

[Hi!! Looks like you’re new to tulpamancy? How’s everything going so far?]

I actually just started last night after days of research xD! I wanna say it went pretty well. But after about 20 minutes of visualzation my head starts hurting xc but i make my self keep going. How long have you had your tulpa o: I think her names Patricia, right xD? Haha

Since October 14 2013, so… around three months? 

That sounds like a good start. Do you have a basic idea of what you want them to be like (form, personality, gender, name, etc) or are you just going to let her decide on their own?

I have a gender and a form. Im still a bit hazy on form though. I dont want to spend a lot of time on personallity because I want him to kind of form his own. Im just hoping i do this right xD Im scared ill mess him up or something

Don’t worry, there’s not much you can mess up. The important thing in the beginning stages is spending as much time with them as you can (not so much that it interferes with your actual life— just, like, remember to narrate whenever you can and when you have some down time take fifteen or so minutes to active force. You don’t have to do it all at once.) 

You may or may not see any signs of sentience within the first few days, and if you don’t, don’t get discouraged. On the other hand, if you do, don’t chalk it off as you parroting just because it’s early. Patricia was vocal within a couple of days and she was annoyed as heck that I kept brushing it off as me. 

(sorry if this isn’t helpful— it’s my first time giving advice)

Haha i appreciate it! I was just about to try and spend time with my tulpa. I like to talk to hin as i create him. Ya know let him know wuddup xD did you name Patricia? Or did she name her self xD ive been debating on wheather i should try and figure out a name or what lol

actually, Patricia’s based off a character from a TV show, so her name was already there. (everyone says not to do this but it went fine)

about looking for a name: what I see people do a lot is, once they can “feel” their tulpa’s presence (and/or the tulpae can communicate with head pressures) they go on a baby names site and read through a bunch of names until you get to one that causes a positive response from the tulpa. That way you can choose one that feels right for both of you. 

if you do decide to pick a name yourself, your tulpa can always change it later, so I wouldn’t stress about it. I know a lot of tulpae that have changed their names at least four times before settling on one. 

Im like so scared my tulpa will never talk to me or I wont dont this whole thing correctly. I was narrating in the car because i had some free time and I feel like I got a responce from him, it was like i was talking to him and then another thought over lapped mine. Im not sure if it was him or not though xc

i was scared of that too! but don’t worry, he’ll want to talk and eventually he’ll find a way to communicate. it can be a little frustrating on both sides at first, you just have to keep at it.

there’s no such thing as “doing it wrong” (unless you a. mistreat/abuse your tulpa, or b.  don’t spend any time with him) because everyone’s experience with this is different. do what feels right.

also, have you seen this post? It has lots of tips and tricks that really help.

and like it says, if you’re not sure it’s your tulpa, best to assume it’s him. as time goes by it’ll get easier to tell who’s who. (Patricia has a British accent and mine is American, so it’s gotten really easy to tell who’s talking. I dunno if that would help you or not though)

Yeah i saw it! C: how lond did it take for Patricia to talk to you?

Almost immediately actually. She told me she’s been there for a while. Technically she was one of those “accidental tulpae” who just appear one day for no particular reason. 

It caused a lot of doubt (because who ever heard of a tulpa being vocal immediately??!) but about a month in I got over it and just accepted that that’s Patricia— stubborn, determined, and non-conforming.

Thats crazy. I wish mine could become vocal that fast xD!

I hope yours becomes vocal soon omg. Patricia really needs more tulpa-friends (if that’s alright, them being friends that is)

icarus-to-the—sun:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

a-tulpas-story:

theforgotten-ones:

wonderin—why:

theforgotten-ones:

wonderin—why:

theforgotten-ones:

theforgotten-ones:

I spelled Patricia’s name wrong when I signed her up for a forum

damn it

I’m sorry Patricia

you deserve a host that can spell

I’m really upset about this and she’s laughing…

Ayy! My names Patricia :D

Really?? That’s so cool! 

[Hi!! Looks like you’re new to tulpamancy? How’s everything going so far?]

I actually just started last night after days of research xD! I wanna say it went pretty well. But after about 20 minutes of visualzation my head starts hurting xc but i make my self keep going. How long have you had your tulpa o: I think her names Patricia, right xD? Haha

Since October 14 2013, so… around three months? 

That sounds like a good start. Do you have a basic idea of what you want them to be like (form, personality, gender, name, etc) or are you just going to let her decide on their own?

I have a gender and a form. Im still a bit hazy on form though. I dont want to spend a lot of time on personallity because I want him to kind of form his own. Im just hoping i do this right xD Im scared ill mess him up or something

Don’t worry, there’s not much you can mess up. The important thing in the beginning stages is spending as much time with them as you can (not so much that it interferes with your actual life— just, like, remember to narrate whenever you can and when you have some down time take fifteen or so minutes to active force. You don’t have to do it all at once.) 

You may or may not see any signs of sentience within the first few days, and if you don’t, don’t get discouraged. On the other hand, if you do, don’t chalk it off as you parroting just because it’s early. Patricia was vocal within a couple of days and she was annoyed as heck that I kept brushing it off as me. 

(sorry if this isn’t helpful— it’s my first time giving advice)

Haha i appreciate it! I was just about to try and spend time with my tulpa. I like to talk to hin as i create him. Ya know let him know wuddup xD did you name Patricia? Or did she name her self xD ive been debating on wheather i should try and figure out a name or what lol

actually, Patricia’s based off a character from a TV show, so her name was already there. (everyone says not to do this but it went fine)

about looking for a name: what I see people do a lot is, once they can “feel” their tulpa’s presence (and/or the tulpae can communicate with head pressures) they go on a baby names site and read through a bunch of names until you get to one that causes a positive response from the tulpa. That way you can choose one that feels right for both of you. 

if you do decide to pick a name yourself, your tulpa can always change it later, so I wouldn’t stress about it. I know a lot of tulpae that have changed their names at least four times before settling on one. 

Im like so scared my tulpa will never talk to me or I wont dont this whole thing correctly. I was narrating in the car because i had some free time and I feel like I got a responce from him, it was like i was talking to him and then another thought over lapped mine. Im not sure if it was him or not though xc

i was scared of that too! but don’t worry, he’ll want to talk and eventually he’ll find a way to communicate. it can be a little frustrating on both sides at first, you just have to keep at it.

there’s no such thing as “doing it wrong” (unless you a. mistreat/abuse your tulpa, or b.  don’t spend any time with him) because everyone’s experience with this is different. do what feels right.

also, have you seen this post? It has lots of tips and tricks that really help.

and like it says, if you’re not sure it’s your tulpa, best to assume it’s him. as time goes by it’ll get easier to tell who’s who. (Patricia has a British accent and mine is American, so it’s gotten really easy to tell who’s talking. I dunno if that would help you or not though)

Yeah i saw it! C: how lond did it take for Patricia to talk to you?

Almost immediately actually. She told me she’s been there for a while. Technically she was one of those “accidental tulpae” who just appear one day for no particular reason. 

It caused a lot of doubt (because who ever heard of a tulpa being vocal immediately??!) but about a month in I got over it and just accepted that that’s Patricia— stubborn, determined, and non-conforming.